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My first full week as an Intern at Flatirons has been crazy! There have been lots of people to meet, names to remember, and books to read this week, and that could very well be the biggest challenge I face. Reading three different books at a time could be very confusing, especially when you add these two gems that I have found on my desk into that mix.

 

Some of the highlights of my first week as an Intern:

• There is such a thing as too much coffee and sugar. I attended a surprise birthday party on day one that had cake, candy and pizza...all after 3 cups of coffee. Wednesday I drank water. 
• Work doesn't feel like work right now. Maybe one day it will, but right now, it doesn't. On our first day we stayed at our office way past when we really needed to be there.
• Experienced what goats do on a day to day basis.
• I painted a ceiling tile, a door frame, a floor, as well as did paint touch ups for the foyer of the basement for student ministries. 
• I got to serve in children's ministry for the first time where I met two super adorable little girls who I got to play with all morning. 
• I then got to help Ben and the rest of the West campus staff launch a youth program at West campus! What an amazing experience. Interacting with the staff, leaders and students for that was so crazy. 80ish middle schoolers and 57 high schoolers and I can't wait to see how God works in all of their hearts.
• Experienced a kids ministry teacher interview. 
• Named our house "the Babe Cave", started a group twitter (@fccinterns if you wish to follow our hilarity) and figured out why our doorbell doesn't work.

These are just a few of the many highlights of the week. Honestly I could write a few pages about each one and how they have impacted me.

Last week my small group discussed what it means to be a follower of Jesus. We talked about how that means giving up some things. For me, those things were certain friendships, smoking, relationships with men and the things associated with them. Sometimes being a follower of Jesus means doing the same things but in a different way. We discussed was drinking.  I had to reevaluate how I drink alcohol. I like beer, wine and tequila because I think they taste good. If I am going to spend $15 on beer I would rather by a 6 pack of craft beer than a 30 rack of keystone light to get me wasted. What do these things all have in common? They are all extremely uncomfortable. Being a follower of Jesus, an intern at Flatirons, a woman of faith in a modern world are all things that are out of my comfort zone and make me extremely uncomfortable.

When we become comfortable with someone, some thing, or at some place we get stuck in a routine that can be potentially dangerous. We are not challenging ourselves and we are not embracing the full life that Jesus intended for us to live. Jesus asked his 12 disciples to give up everything they owned, their families, friends and lives to follow Him. Coming into this internship I was unsure if this is exactly where I was meant to be right now. After the first week I am confident He has meant for me to give up my comfortable life to follow Him and to bring the light of Jesus into kids and teenagers at Flatirons.

Following Jesus is uncomfortable, and I've been so uncomfortable all week. I like to think I'm doing a great job at following Jesus, but I know I'm not perfect. I used to think there was this fine line to walk while trying to live life with grace for myself and others while still holding on to the truth. Ask anyone who is close to me (or asked me for advice after two glasses of wine) and they will tell you I am great at the truth part but suck at the grace part. Or I hit the nail on the head when it comes to grace, but I don't hold on to truth in a way that is beneficial for anyone. But Andy Stanley tells us in "Deep and Wide" (go ahead and make dirty comments, I bet you we have already thought it) that it's not a balance, it's 100% truth AND 100% grace. Talk about being uncomfortable.

God is so great, and uses some of the most unlikely people in the most unlikely ways. I am so humbled to be a part of this program and be able to do life with these awesome people that I share an office with, a home with, and a calling with. I am so grateful and so appreciative of all of my readers, friends, family, colleagues and supporters who have helped give me this opportunity to experience what ministry is life. I cannot wait to see how God transforms the hearts of the kids and students I will be with all year as well as the other interns and myself.

Girl Meets World

I read a fun fact about Coloradans through something on Buzzfeed: That we love to talk about the weather. Maybe more than anything else besides football. I think something that can be added to that list is seasons. I feel like I'm always saying "I can't wait until...." fill in the blank with whatever the next season is supposed to be. Or when it is supposed to be summer, and it is acting like winter, I can't help but comment to everyone who walks up to my poolside bar how weird our weather is, even for Colorado. However, I'm constantly reminded that every May it snows, every June it rains, every July is hot as Hades, and every August I manage to catch a flu like cold.

I think it's appropriate to talk about seasons because life is full of them, and each year is full of them, depending on what region you're in of course! I also think it is appropriate to mention seasons because I had written about how happy I was summer was here, how fast it came upon us, and now I will be writing about the end of summer! Parents are cheering, kids are crying, seasonal employees are partying and the rest of us are stuck somewhere in the middle. For me in previous years, August and September were no fun because we are always so short staffed that 6 days a week and over time is inevitable. The end of this summer marks something special I haven't experienced since I left for my freshman year in college. It's the end of summer, beginning of fall, but it is also the end of my time at Pinehurst and the beginning of a new path God has laid out for me. This is the beginning of a new season of my life, and I so hope this is the season where God reveals to me where I belong.

I've almost felt like a teenager going off to college again. Getting a redo on what I so massively screwed up. While I understand that is not the case for this, it is easy to compare it. I feel like I have been reliving my teen years and embracing my inner-werido by listening to too much pop music (I rediscovered BBMak today...) and watching tv shows that depict the lives of teenagers including Pretty Little Liars, The Secret Life of the American Teenager, and Boy Meets World. Watching the last made me check out the spin off about Corey and Topanga's daughter. The pilot episode is where Riley is trying to make her world her own, instead of her parents. Okay so I'm not a 6th grader (though most are taller than me and I feel like one sometimes), but I felt connected to her struggle. I'm not trying to discover my world. I've done that for years. I'm handing my life over to God and making my world His world.

However the closer this transition gets, the scarier it gets as well. I have lots of fantastic friends, family and colleagues who have supported me both financially and by praying for me for a long list of things. I have people supporting me from every spectrum of my life. Some who I have only known for a little over a week, some I have only met once, and those who have been a part of my real family/chosen family my entire life. God is so wonderful to have brought these people to me when I need them the most. I still have a hard time looking for words when I pray about support, but God knows what I need and what I am asking for, even if I struggle to make the ask. Even though I have a little over two weeks to raise a large amount of support (minimum of $6,000) I still have no doubt in my mind that God will take care of me, protect me, and guide me through the process of getting the rest of this support! I'm a lady on a mission with an almighty Lord backing me up and honestly, there is nothing I don't believe I can't accomplish with that!

To those of you who have supported me: I thank you from the bottom of my heart! If you have not received a thank you card, it is in my purse and will be mailed or personally delivered within the next week.

To those of you who would still like to support me: Cash or checks can be given to me or mailed directly to the church. Be sure the checks are made out to Flatirons Community Church and in the memo line you put "Internship: Melissa Cheatham" and mail them to
Flatirons Community Church
Attn: Internship Program
355 S. Boulder Road
Lafayette, CO 80026

OR ask me for a pre-addressed and pre-stamped envelope!

You may also send your gift toward my internship support via the internet! Clicking here will take you to the website to donate online. Don't forget to put my name "Melissa Cheatham" in the interns name box!

This week my official notice was turned in to my boss saying my last day is September 1st. 13 days until I move into my new residence (for the next 11 months). And 18 more days to finish raising all of my funds so this journey of a lifetime can begin!

Every great story starts with....

"So I just got back from being lost in the woods"

OK so maybe not every great story starts that way, but that's sure how my Independence day weekend started. My friend Vashti and I went on what we thought was going to be a short, fun evening hike at Lair O' the Bear. Well...due to flooding, late snows, etc. the trail we were both used to was closed, and we set out on the Bear Creek Trail. Well needless to say it wasn't a "loop" trail. After a few miles, and the sun slowly setting we realized we may be lost. I think lost might be the wrong term, because we were still on the path. But had we kept going the way we were going, our hike might have turned into a camp. And the pup might have not been too happy with that. Luckily her husband came to our rescue and was hiking up the mountain as we were hiking down, since we had no flashlights and were running out of water.

This lovely set of bones was found during our hike. We saw it in the daylight and it wasn't this creepy. But with Joel's spotlight for us to walk in (or walk behind if you're graceful like me) it was UBER creepy. #forestofdeath

Sometimes I forget that verses from the Bible can be applicable in day to day situations. There are times where I'm really good at remembering to consciously pray, thank Him for His sacrifices, and am fully aware of why I believe in God. But I do have days where I forget. I lived so much of my life without God that when I'm in trouble it isn't the first direction I run. However, that night was one where He was with us the entire way and I was fully aware of the statement "Fear not, for I am with you"(Isaiah 41:10). I didn't panic, because God is greater than me. And God is greater than our sense of direction.

This year also marked my last 4th of July at Pinehurst, which was super exciting. Bittersweet is the word I have been using to describe most of this summer. I normally never volunteer for 12+ hour days, but that day is always my favorite. Getting paid to watch fireworks? Heck yes! Especially the best show in town. But I'm not biased at all. The beginning of my newest adventure is getting closer and closer, so my nerves are kicking in. But I keep reminding myself "Fear not, for I am with you". Even at my lowest points, I know God meets me and picks me up. He will never give up on me and will always be there for me.

I am spending this summer working hard, building new relationships with new friends and old acquaintances. I'm trying new things and having fun with some of the coolest people I've ever been surrounded by. Including my siblings. My little sister's best friend from Maui visited and I was able to take them to Glenwood and had a BLAST! My calling truly is students. And I'm support raising. Anyone who has talked to me in the last three months knows there is not a conversation without me bringing up support, funds, or fundraiser.

Yes, that watermelon was broken in half using someone's head.


That process sometimes seems like a burden, but overall it's been the biggest blessing I have encountered, and I wish I would have realized that earlier in the process. I am having so much fun talking to my friends, family and colleagues about how God is working my heart and at Flatirons, and how passionate I am about the next step I am taking in my life and in my faith. I have become better about praying for myself, praying earnestly, and trusting the Lord God with all my heart.

As most of the summer is passing by (way too quickly I might add), I am taking time off of work in a few weeks to visit my awesome and supportive cousins, aunts and uncles. My trip through Kansas is the best vacation I could ask for, because even though it's a long drive alone I always have a blast. I love seeing the little ones grow up and my cousins who, even though I didn't know them until a few years ago, we have so much in common. Oh, and baseball. Because Baseball. And softball.

I just read a quote on facebook that said "Being a Christian doesn't mean I won't fall...it means Jesus will catch me when I do" and that is the #truth He has caught me in so many ways, especially the more I learn to trust Him and follow His word.

I hope everyone has had a wonderful July so far and is enjoying their summer. I know I sure am :)

Identity Crisis

This is probably going to wind up being a rant about nothing, but I felt the need tonight to vocalize it to a large group of people. Call me lazy if you like, but telling individual groups of people the same thing multiple times makes me feel like a broken record which in turn makes me feel like even more of an old lady than my sleep schedule already does. And for the record, I'm being a rebel and am awake two hours past my self imposed bed time.

This is about the "Missy" v. "Melissa" debate.

Yes, I prefer Melissa over Missy. For a while I approached it with an I don't care attitude. I finally realized I needed to set boundaries with myself and make sure people call me "Melissa". I can think of about 20 people I'm okay with calling me "Missy", and believe me you know who you are. The members at Pinehurst don't fit into this category because old habits are hard to break.

Melissa Anne was my mom's best friend's name, whom I am named after. When I was an infant my Granddad started calling me Missy, and somehow it stuck. I liked it, everyone liked it, and with a last name like Cheatham when you're in first grade it's a lot easier to have a short and simple first name.

When Granddad passed away, I felt what I thought was clarity in my own Missy/Melissa debate. But now I'm having second thoughts. But I'm realizing that my reasoning for being Melissa instead of Missy is flawed. I shouldn't have decided I am a "Melissa" because Granddad died. I should have wanted to stay Missy because he died.

Don't worry, I'm not going to change my name again, but tonight I had a moment of clarity where I should allow people I love and trust to call me Missy because I loved and trusted Granddad with all of my heart and it was his nickname for me. And that's all it is. A nickname. Not my identity. My heart is still the same whether you call me Melissa, Missy or if you are one of the 6 people I allow to call me "Miss". If a nickname isn't atrocious enough, a nickname FOR a nick name is the worst. But don't ever address me as "Mel". I might throw a rock in your direction.

I'm starting to feel like I will never outgrow Granddad's nickname for me. But if we are going to get positive, at least it can be part of the legacy that he left behind in me.

Is it summer yet?

So I've lived in Colorado my entire life, and every year the weather still baffles me. We definitely have our monsoon season, and while I always expect it, I always forget how bad it can really get. Although I'm sure a lot of people will agree with me that these tornadoes have been exceptionally odd. Last time I checked Kansas was a part of tornado alley, not Colorado.

I feel like the last month has been difficult. Summer unofficially started at my work on Memorial Day. Normally the weekend building up to the first holiday of the season is extremely busy, but Mother Nature had other plans for that. Luckily Memorial Day was beautiful and we experienced sales on the level of the 4th of July. It was NUTS!! Memorial Day is a day the last couple years that has become difficult for me. I never appreciated the holiday until my Granddad passed away. Father's day is coming up this weekend, and that is another holiday that I never appreciated until the one I celebrated it with wasn't around. My mom and I visited Fort Logan that morning before I went to work and brought him flowers. We heard bagpipes playing, which we thought was beautiful. We weren't able to stay for the program they put on, but we will next year.

Since Memorial Day means summer, that means pools are OPEN! It's a wonderful thing. Especially when you work at one. During the summer I bar tend at a pool bar and serve food there at Pinehurst. Last year I was the supervisor, and oversaw the service being provided. This year, for multiple reasons, I am not. I didn't think it would a difficult transition, but it turned out to be a lot more different than I expected. That, sleep deprivation, and my selective hearing resulted in a confrontation at work I have never had, nor that I thought I would ever have. It's almost impressive that I have worked somewhere for 5 years without getting in trouble, but at the same time that's the point. But needless to say, this was an extremely grounding and humbling experience. Having not truly been reprimanded there before I was shocked, but I then realized that my attitude seriously needed to be put in check, and not just at work.

The bittersweet feelings toward my place of employment remain, even though the countdown is on. 80 more days until my last day at somewhere that has been my home away from home for the last 6 summers, and 5 years. I see a swan dive off the high dive in my future!

With things changing at work, I'm finding myself with less free time to pursue fundraising. Although now the pressure is on, and I have a deadline set to where I need to have half of my funds in by July 15th! That really hit me hard. While I still have been pursuing it, there is now a fire under my rear kicking me into gear to get to this goal. Half means $9,000. With what I already have and what I am expecting in the next week, I have over $2,000. So I still need approximately $7,000 more by July 15th.

My tupperware fundraiser is still going on through the weekend! So far so good :) I will post the link below again, as well as the link to the online Tupperware Party my mom and I are hosting, where I will get 25% of total sales donated towards my internship fund! I will post the link to that as well. The difference is the fundraiser has it's own catalog, and the Party is the FULL summer catalog. More items to chose from.

TUPPERWARE FUNDRAISER

TUPPERWARE PARTY

I will also be hosting a Damsel in Defense Personal Protection Party on June 23, 2014 at my friend Lisa's home. She is a consultant for Damsel and is offering to donate 10% of her commissions to my internship fund from my friend Gwen's party that was held last week, my party, AND any that are booked off of my party. It's really a lot of fun, that have different types of stun guns, pepper sprays, and personal protection items geared toward keeping women safe. 

Since I am pressing close to my fundraising deadlines I want to remind anyone who is willing to support me of the different ways, other than the Tupperware stuff. You can make a one time gift in ANY amount, or you can set up monthly donations in any amount for the 11 month duration of the internship. To put it in perspective, if you donate $10 a month, that's $110.
$10 is the same as a bar tab, less than a hookah at exhale, less than some people spend on Starbucks in a week, a Spotify membership, and a little more than a netflix membership!

So think about it, because remember, you're investing in my future! And maybe giving up one night at the bar a month will invest in your own future as well!! The link to donate online is below. 

Melissa's Internship Support Gifts

To those of you who are consistently praying for me and who have supported me (or plan to) financially, Thank you SO much. God is so good, and I am aware I cannot do this on my own. He has given me such a wonderful support system and so many fantastic people in my life to guide me where I need to be. Even on days when I feel torn down, stressed out and alone, I know He is with me and that I am not. I have started a group on Facebook for all of my Facebook friends to join and share in my little victories, pray for me publicly, and to keep track on my fundraising ideas a little easier. IF we are friends and you didn't get an invite, please don't be offended, I'll get there. I'm sure I forgot a few people.

Here's a throwback for ya....since I am "celebrating" my 6th summer at Pinehurst, here is a picture from my first.
#throwbackthursday

Tupperware Party!

Hi Friends!

First of all I would like to thank everyone with their continued support throughout my fundraising journey! It's been a month since I have updated my blog, and in that time I have received almost $2,000 toward my goal. It has been such a blessing to see such great support from all of my family and friends, especially all of the prayers from everyone. I have felt so lifted up by the Spirit with this journey. Even though I have some bad days where I totally feel down and overwhelmed, I know Jesus is right there with me for every step I take.

The last few weeks have been super awesome! We are planning a get together for all of the 2014-15 interns to get to know each other a little better before we start working together, and living together! I have also met our student pastor for the West Campus, Ben and he is already getting me plugged into the summer events to get to know the program, its values and everyone who makes it work!

A few weeks ago I was able to witness two of my friends handing their life over to Jesus and being baptized at Flatirons! I also had the honor of dunking Austin and being a part of his baptism. I love seeing Jesus in the people who are the closest to me and seeing how handing your life over to God and literally letting Jesus take the reins changes your heart.

The annual food drive was this weekend and I was able to volunteer my time to tape boxes, meet the volunteers as well as some middle school students and the high school students who are going on the trip to Jamaica next month! I am super pumped to be a part of this program and to see how God works with the students in the mountains and the western metro area of Denver. This has been my community my whole life and I know how many kids and students are in need of a good community and how imperative a working youth group is to developing a relationship with Jesus.

As I continue my fundraising journey, my friend Cindy has helped me set up a fundraiser through Tupperware. I will get at least 40% of the total sales from the fundraiser that will go toward my internship. Tupperware has a separate catalog for fundraising with a lot of their top selling items, and I will also have the full catalog available upon request. With that I will only get 25% of the profits but there are a lot more products to chose from. And ALL of Tupperware's products have a LIFETIME WARRANTY!!! Even though we are young, that is still something to think about! Spending good money on great products that will LAST is so much better than buying stuff at the dollar store that will last you like 6 months if you're lucky.

This party is online only and is set to close on June 15, 2014! So get on it!!! You can order through this link:
MY TUPPERWARE FUNDRAISER

I also will be having a BBQ in July to support my internship. My mom is donating burgers and hot dogs and there will be a pool, basketball court, and a lake across the street for fishing so it will be a good time!!! Date is TBA :)

Happy Monday everyone!! I hope you have a great week!!!!

Happy Monday!

I am pretty lucky that I work in an industry where Monday is my favorite day of the week! It is not my only day off, but it's the only day I get to sleep in, run errands on my own time, and be seated long enough to even consider writing an entry in my blog! Today I was able to get the oil changed in my car, go to the chiropractor, workout, and even cook  my cats food for the next couple weeks (don't ask, she's high maintenance). After all of that was done my mom and I went over to my grandparents' old house with the intentions of taking the leftover of our things to the storage unit. My mom left me alone in the basement for 5 minutes and I promptly began going through pictures and newspaper clippings. My Granddad had newspaper clippings from the Lakewood Sentinal saved from his old city council days back in the 70's. It was pretty exciting!

Needless to say we didn't get anything productive done at the house today. Although I found some very priceless photographs, and we did get other things done that needed to be taken care of, all of the boxes are still in the basement. We are scheduled to close on selling the house in the beginning of May, although we feel like it will be pushed back a bit. My mom and I have been extremely blessed to have a neighbor's daughter buy the house from us. It feels like it is staying in the "family", and this has been a lot less stressful than we had anticipated.

As my three-day weekend is coming to a close, I have started my follow-ups to my letters, and have even received my first support check (no follow up required!). Last week I was feeling very alone and overwhelmed with everything I have going on, but today I feel at peace. God has given me three wonderful siblings who are some of the most selfless people I know, and even given our age differences still are my best friends (even when we live on opposite sides of the country). They remind me on a daily basis how great God is. I can feel Him with me minute by minute reminding me that he brought me to this, so he will bring me through it! I can feel everyone's prayers, and I have felt surrounded by support and love all week.

Thank you to everyone who is reading and supporting me spiritually through this journey, and to those who are considering supporting me financially. I will be setting dates for my fundraisers at the beginning of May, and will keep them posted here! I have also posted my support letter in a previous entry that has all of the information for supporting me financially for those of you who have not received a letter yet!